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Social-Protocols

Protocols that keep groups aligned: norms, reputation, punishment, repair, and clarity.

Incentives, media, and everyday scripts that stabilize shared belief and coordination.

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🧵 Built to last: how systems puppet themselves

Durable systems rarely need to hold a whip. They make people want to pull the strings, because belonging and purpose feel good. That is how leaders and institutions get collaboration at scale without constant force.

05-May 3 minutes

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🎲🩸 Politics is a bloodless war game that ends in zero-sum

When people dodge candor to duck awkward confrontation, they do not erase the fight; they push it sideways. They still score the outcome like a zero-sum game: someone wins cover, someone eats the cost, and trust rots in the gaps.

28-Apr 2 minutes

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The Prisoner's Dilemma, Tit for Tat, and how cooperation scales

In the Prisoner’s Dilemma, two players who each chase a private gain can both end up worse off.
Axelrod ran a tournament where computer programs (full strategies) competed against each other. Each entry played a long series against every other program; strategies were ranked by total score, not by one lucky match.
Tit for Tat (cooperate first, then mirror the last move) topped those tables: nice, forgiving, clear, and don’t be a pushover (retaliatory).
If moves are noisy (random slips), Tit for Tat can lock into long punishment chains. More forgiving rules (for example Tit for Two Tats) blunt that.

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26-Apr 3 minutes

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🧮 Common sense is Engineered

It feels “just obvious” because it’s been engineered into you.

21-Apr 2 minutes

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🧠🎭 We only accept truth as a meme ...

We only accept truth as a meme …

… so it never hits the amygdala hard enough to fight for it.

The brain doesn’t care about “truth.” It cares about keeping its model of the world intact. Anything that threatens that model feels like danger.

So we downgrade truth into memes. We turn destabilising facts into jokes, clips, and hot takes. That makes them easy to look at and easy to ignore.

14-Apr One minute

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🕰️🤝 You sync meaning through shared time, not through the same vocabulary

Real communication isn’t just about words; it’s about shared context, practice, and experience. We only truly “sync” meanings with others when we share genuine time and experiences, not through superficial activities. Without this, even the same words can mean different things to different people.

03-Apr One minute

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🧬🧠 Memes jump mind to mind, then make you defend them like identity

Memes are units of cultural transmission, Dawkins’s analogue to genes, that hop from brain to brain by imitation. They can harden into norms, identities, and shared fictions, recruit emotion and tribal defense, and behave like agents in how people protect or spread them.

01-Apr 2 minutes

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😫🔄 Hard times, strong men, and feeds that reward noise over skill

Engagement-driven feeds rank by clicks and watch time, rewarding attention-seeking and performative identity. That speeds up the weak-men phase of the Hopf cycle: shallow performers rise ahead of competent people, and institutions slide toward failure faster.

10-Mar One minute