W16Street-Wisdom 💬🇻🇪 Ni lava, ni presta la batea.
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Teaser
Won’t help, and won’t let anyone else finish the job either.
TLDR
You know that person who won’t do their own laundry, then hides the wash tub so you can’t do yours? This saying is for them. They refuse to lift a finger, then hoard the tools so nobody else can finish the work either. You use it when someone is both lazy and obstructive. Closest English kin: a dog in the manger.Context
It is the exasperated sigh when someone will not help and still blocks the rest of you. You hear it about a colleague who keeps the shared gear in their drawer, or a family member who hides the cleaning supplies until the chore becomes someone else’s problem.Going deeper
In English
Closest English equivalents include:
- They won’t lift a finger and act like a dog in the manger.
- They don’t help and they get in the way.
- They’re useless and obstructive.
What the double hit costs
When someone monopolizes the shared tool, the rest of the house or team burns time hunting a workaround. You end up doing their share plus yours. The saying names that double hit: idle hands, and a locked cupboard.
True trust in a kitchen, a family, or an office needs people who either wash or pass the tub. Holding both jobs hostage trains everyone else to stop asking and start resenting.