Brains compress the world into layers and rank, route attention upward, so local noise gets summarized before it reaches a decision. That is why pyramid-like groups feel obvious: a few signals at the top, many roles below, a ladder everyone can read. Hierarchy is an attractor, not destiny. Flatter systems need counter-design because the nervous system is already used to climbing.

Your ego runs like a game engine your brain keeps active in the background. The pain feels real because it borrows the same circuits as physical injury, but the game itself is a simulation. If you want to evolve, recognize it is not real.