<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>StillYourChoice on behaviorengineering.ai</title><link>https://behaviorengineering.ai/tags/stillyourchoice/</link><description>Recent content in StillYourChoice on behaviorengineering.ai</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 01:00:00 +1100</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://behaviorengineering.ai/tags/stillyourchoice/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>When the universe guru became one of us</title><link>https://behaviorengineering.ai/human-condition/2026-05-24-when-the-universe-guru-became-one-of-us/</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 01:00:00 +1100</pubDate><guid>https://behaviorengineering.ai/human-condition/2026-05-24-when-the-universe-guru-became-one-of-us/</guid><description>&lt;h3 id="when-religion-felt-like-glue"&gt;When religion felt like glue&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kaku says he served two years in the United States Army when it was the &lt;strong&gt;height of the Vietnam War&lt;/strong&gt;. He had already begun to question religion:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Is it just a &lt;strong&gt;glue&lt;/strong&gt; that holds people together? Is there a &lt;strong&gt;deeper meaning&lt;/strong&gt; to the whole thing?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3 id="candy-was-not-candy"&gt;Candy was not candy&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;During grenade training, the recruits saw deep scars on one side of the sergeant&amp;rsquo;s face and on his neck. They asked why. He told them:&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>⚓ Neutrality is a risky ride</title><link>https://behaviorengineering.ai/social-protocols/2026-05-19-be-the-captain-not-the-vessel/</link><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 01:00:00 +1100</pubDate><guid>https://behaviorengineering.ai/social-protocols/2026-05-19-be-the-captain-not-the-vessel/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;When you decide not to take a side, what actually happens to your agency?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Deliberate neutrality works when you&amp;rsquo;re actively investigating or following fair process. But neutral-by-default under pressure? That&amp;rsquo;s &lt;strong&gt;drift&lt;/strong&gt;. And once you&amp;rsquo;re drifting, you&amp;rsquo;re easy to steer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you don&amp;rsquo;t take a stance, the &lt;strong&gt;system nudges you&lt;/strong&gt; into roles it rewards. Depending on what the moment requires, you drift into becoming a &lt;strong&gt;silent bystander&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;eager recruit&lt;/strong&gt;, or &lt;strong&gt;compliant enforcer&lt;/strong&gt;. Risk spikes when things are &lt;strong&gt;unclear&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;time is tight&lt;/strong&gt;, a &lt;strong&gt;boss is watching&lt;/strong&gt;, or your &lt;strong&gt;identity feels on the line&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>When the model feels threatened</title><link>https://behaviorengineering.ai/cognitive-memetics/t-shirt-art/2026-05-16-smart-cover-your-ears/</link><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 01:00:00 +1100</pubDate><guid>https://behaviorengineering.ai/cognitive-memetics/t-shirt-art/2026-05-16-smart-cover-your-ears/</guid><description/></item><item><title>🔥🎯 When stakes run high, choice stops feeling free</title><link>https://behaviorengineering.ai/human-condition/2026-03-27-born-to-choose/</link><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 01:00:00 +1100</pubDate><guid>https://behaviorengineering.ai/human-condition/2026-03-27-born-to-choose/</guid><description>&lt;h3 id="outsourced-decisions-owned-story"&gt;Outsourced decisions, owned story&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;People want options, but they let &lt;strong&gt;defaults&lt;/strong&gt; or trusted others decide, as long as it still feels like their choice. The menu keeps growing (plans, products, feeds that never quit), so you hand the call to defaults or experts and protect one story: “&lt;strong&gt;I am still in control&lt;/strong&gt;.” Law and politics build for this. We vote, then specialists and institutions decide. We keep the &lt;strong&gt;story of agency&lt;/strong&gt;. They carry the work and the blame.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>